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Kids Chores Teach Responsibility

“Kids chores are a great way to reduce your workload and teach your children responsibility and self sufficiency at the same time.”

Need some help around the house?  Is a mountain of mess building up?  Are you spending all your time cooking and cleaning?  Stop the madness and implement chores.

The biggest obstacle to introducing chores to children is parental reluctance to overcome the whines, groans and complaints of their children.  There are some ways to get your kids involved and reduce the fights.

The best way to ensure kids chores are a part of the daily routine is to start early.  If you encourage your children to clean up after themselves and take responsibility for household chores early, it will become a natural part of their lives.  Right after your children start walking, chores can begin. 

At this age they can help you put toys away or put laundry into baskets.  Even if you have started late, you can still teach older children to clean up; it will just take some positive reinforcement and extra effort on your part.    

You can encourage chores by giving your children the option to pick which household tasks they want to be responsible for.  Make a list of all the chores that need to be completed and have your child choose a couple of tasks that are age appropriate. 

It’s important that kids be shown the task they are asked to complete.  Don’t assume your child knows what you’re talking about or how to do the task you’ve assigned.  Chores require demonstration first. 

Assigning kids chores is not the magical solution to your cleaning nightmare.  Your children will not complete the tasks perfectly and nor should they.  This is a learning process and your children will become better at completing their chores as time goes on. 

As your children become better at doing their assigned chores you can increase their responsibility.  If your child sorts laundry, perhaps when he is a preteen he can do laundry.  This way by the time he goes to college he will have mastered doing laundry and won’t have to send his clothes out for cleaning. 

By introducing chores into your children’s daily lives, you will teach them how to take care of themselves, how to be responsible and lighten the load to maintain your household.  Keep kids chores a part of their lives with household responsibility charts and always praise work that is well done. 

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